Participant Name: Child S

Date: 10/07/04

 

Activity Level/Sleep Patterns: 

S’s activity level and sleep patterns have not changed.  He sleeps 10 hours a night and loves to play outside with his friends.  He still makes “little noises” but maybe not as often as before the program.

 

Motor Skills:

I don’t know if this fits in the motor skills area, but before participating in the program he couldn’t figure out how to do other things if his hands were full (i.e.- if he was holding things in both hands he couldn’t think through the process of putting something down so he could use a hand for something else).  Yesterday I saw him, without thinking twice, place an item between his arm and ribs so the he had a free hand to open a door.  Before the program he would’ve gotten frustrated and upset that he “can’t” do it.  This is big!

 

Speech/Language:

This is where we see the biggest improvement!  He no longer forgets what he wants to say and is able to talk at a normal “pace” instead of struggling to stay focused on what it is he wants to say.  We noticed this change after day one of the program and he hasn’t struggled since.  Amazing!

 

Perceptual/Cognitive:

S was able to re-tell a story he read which is huge because he has always had trouble with reading comprehension and being able to voice what he wants to say.  Hearing him do both at the same time was wonderful!!

 

Emotional/Behavioral: 

S’s frustration level is so much better.  He used to get frustrated and upset at least a couple times a day and now he rarely does.  Of course, I believe this is because things are coming so much easier for him he has less reason to be frustrated.  He hasn’t gotten “needlessly” upset or to the point of crying since going through the program either.  Also, he gave his aunt a beat hug when he saw her at the beauty shop….never would have happened before! 

 

Social Skills: 

This is one area we haven’t see much change.  He’s still pretty quiet and shy around others.  I asked him to tell his teacher something for me and he said, “I can’t just walk up to people and start talking!”  I can understand him feeling that way about strangers, but his teacher!?  Maybe we’ll still see a change here??  Time will tell.

 

General: 

We are VERY pleased with S’s progress and the program!  We didn’t know what to expect or where/if he would benefit, but he has and it’s AMAZING to me that it was so easy to improve his confidence and life!  Thank you Susie and Barb!!!

 

S’s Mom

 

 

 

An e-mail response to potential client from a parent whose child participated:

 

To answer your questions---no, the therapy was not difficult to S at all.  He looked forward to it beginning and never once complained about having to go or had trouble getting through the sessions (other than some of the colors making him tired, but they have ways of working through that which he was always willing to do).  There was nothing unpleasant about the therapy and to our surprise the drive and extra time spent in Lebanon wasn’t as bad as we expected.  We spent time at the park for school work and play and went walking around downtown (be sure to visit the chocolate factory and the ice cream parlor).  We aren’t seeing new gains in his language (1.5 months post therapy), but he had tremendous improvement in that area rather quickly.  Before therapy S spoke slowly, had a hard time concentrating, and often forgot what he wanted to say.  Almost every story ended with, “….I forget.”  It was very frustrating for him and broke our hearts.  If I wasn’t there to see/hear it with my own eyes and ears I’d have a hard time believing it, but when I say that it changed after the 1st day of therapy, I’m not exaggerating.  For a couple of weeks after that I found myself “knowing” when his stories were going to die off with “I forget”, but they never did and still haven’t!  I feel great joy knowing that one day we’ll “forget” what it was like before therapy.

 

We are seeing new changes in other areas.  He used to get very frustrated and upset while doing his homework.  He became mean (which isn’t in his character at all) and it would end in tears and taking time to sit on his bed to calm down.  I think most of that came from his continual frustration of both not being able to concentrate and not understanding what he was reading.  Over the past month or so, he has started coming home, having a snack, and sitting down to do his homework…without being told!  If he needs help he asks and is very willing to listen and learn—more new changes!  I can’t remember him being frustrated at all in the past month or so and it used to be several times a day.  He has much more patience (especially with himself) and willingness to learn than ever before.

 

Another change we see in S is that he used to be sensitive to other sounds in the house.  He wasn’t overly sensitive like I understand (some?) ADHD kids are, but rather they were a distraction to him and he wasn’t able to concentrate on whatever task he was trying to do.  I’m having trouble describing it but I’ll try…numerous times a day he’d be distracted by the noises—even if it was in the other room.  He’d ask for someone to stop talking or for the tv to be turned down, or whatever the sound was(the talking, tv volume, etc. were not at a volume that would distract the average person).  The 1st time I realized it was changing was one night when he was practicing typing on the computer (he’s new to typing) and Monday Night Football came on in the other room.  It took me a couple of minutes to realize that he was completely focused on what he was typing and wasn’t even noticing the (I call it obnoxious) music from the other room.  I later commented about it to a friend and said that maybe he didn’t notice it because he was concentrating so much on his typing.  They almost hit me over the head with “LISTEN TO WHAT YOU ARE SAYING!!!...he was CONCENTRATING on what he was doing and wasn’t distracted by the other noise!!”  What a great moment it was realizing they were right and I was unknowingly making excuses for why he wasn’t distracted!

 

Seth hasn’t had any regression but rather increased happiness and confidence.  It is so good to see him smiling more and having the confidence to do and say things without being afraid of “failure”.  Of course he sees the changes in himself and I was so proud of him the day he came home to tell me that another 5th grade class had their hearing checked that day.  He knew the following day would be his class’ turn and he was afraid they’d make him put the headphones on.  For him to come home and ask me to write a note to remind his teacher that he is not to use headphones meant the world to me.  He KNOWS how much it has helped him and doesn’t want to do anything to backslide.  I’m sitting here with tears of happiness as I remember the wonderful benefits he’s received.

 

Barb and Susie were very knowledgeable, friendly, and loving.  When there was something they weren’t sure of they didn’t hesitate to call the people in Colorado to get the answers they needed.  The hardest part of the program was having to leave on the last day knowing that we wouldn’t be back to see and talk to them on a daily basis.  They are truly special people!  I know what you mean about being cautiously optimistic.  That’s exactly how I felt going into it.  I didn’t know if, or to what extent, it would help S, but something inside of me knew it was right and we had to give it a try for him.  I’m so glad we did!

 

 

S’s Mom